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<channel><title><![CDATA[ONE CREATIVE CHOICE - Blog]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.onecreativechoice.com/blog]]></link><description><![CDATA[Blog]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 20 Jan 2026 07:50:31 +0000</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Scoliosis Awareness Month]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.onecreativechoice.com/blog/scoliosis-awareness-month]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.onecreativechoice.com/blog/scoliosis-awareness-month#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 01 Jun 2021 14:53:55 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.onecreativechoice.com/blog/scoliosis-awareness-month</guid><description><![CDATA[June: Scoliosis awareness month&#8203;EARLY INTERVENTION is key&#8203;         &#8203;&#8203;What is Scoliosis?You may have heard that Princess&nbsp;Eugenie, Yo-Yo Ma, Usain Bolt or Martha Hunt -to name just a few- have scoliosis, but what is it?&nbsp;   	 		 			 				 					 						          					 								 					 						          					 								 					 						          					 								 					 						          					 							 		 	   &#8203;Scoliosis is a curvature of the spine in a C or S-shape, the spine can [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2 class="wsite-content-title">June: Scoliosis awareness month<br /><font size="4">&#8203;EARLY INTERVENTION is key</font><br />&#8203;</h2>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/image_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong>&#8203;<br />&#8203;What is Scoliosis?</strong><br />You may have heard that Princess&nbsp;Eugenie, Yo-Yo Ma, Usain Bolt or Martha Hunt -to name just a few- have scoliosis, but what is it?&nbsp;</div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:25%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/published/eugenie-weddnig-dress-t.jpg?1622624043" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:25%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/published/0000962133-yo-yo-ma-4.jpg?1622624072" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:25%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/6b81cd2639fb027e0346931c2b09a2d5_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:25%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/published/martha-hunt-at-vanity-fair-oscar-party-in-beverly-hills-02-24-2019-1.jpg?1622624097" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;Scoliosis is a curvature of the spine in a C or S-shape, the spine can also rotate. Broadly speaking, all cases of scoliosis can be placed in one of two categories: functional or structural.&nbsp;<br /></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong>&#8203;Functional scoliosis</strong> is the appearance of a curved spine but it is caused by another condition, such as different leg lengths.</div>  <div class="paragraph">In <strong>structural scoliosis</strong>, as the name suggests, the structure of the spine is actually altered. There is often no clear underlying cause for this type of scoliosis leading it to be labelled&nbsp;<em>idiopathic</em>&nbsp;(unknown)<em>.&nbsp;</em></div>  <div class="paragraph">Some kinds of scoliosis are present from birth, and others develop in childhood, adolescence or as we age.<br /></div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;Some people have a lot of pain, some have occasional pain, and some have none.&nbsp;<br />&#8203;<br /></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">&#8203;<font size="5">Although there are similarities, no two experiences are the same.&#8203;<br />&#8203;</font><br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/published/bigstock-scoliosis-film-x-ray-show-spin-110500244.jpg?1622624237" alt="Picture" style="width:358;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/xray-curve-progression_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong>Treatment</strong></div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;Treatments depend upon the type of scoliosis and its severity. Often, a wait-and-watch approach can be taken when degree of curvature is low. Although, in Juvenile and Adolescent Idiopathic Scoliosis (AIS) things can change quickly due to the rapid rate of growth at these times.&nbsp;</div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;Bracing may be offered, not to correct the spine but to prevent curve growth. There are several types of brace, they are often worn both day and night. My daughter wore hers for 20 hours a day, for two years. This bought her some time and allowed her to complete her growth before surgery. (She&rsquo;s an absolute hero and I&rsquo;m incredibly proud of how she&rsquo;s managed things so far.)</div>  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:black">There are several kinds of surgeries: Vertebral body tethering (VBT) is fairly new and not currently offered on the NHS because its long-term efficacy is unknown. In the US, where it is more commonly offered there are reports of repeated surgeries due to instrumentation failure. The benefit of this technique is that it aims to preserve flexibility. It works best on smaller curves and on adolescents who are yet to have their major growth spurt.&nbsp;</span>&#8203;</div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;Growing rods are typically used on younger patients. Traditional growth rods require spinal fusion after growth is completed. The use of magnetic growth rods is relatively new, and it has been developed to improve the traditional growing rod procedures. It normally requires no follow-up surgery after initial implantation surgery.<br /></div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;Another option is growth-guided devices, here the spine is left to grow on its own after the initial procedure. As the child grows, the spine elongates along the rod. The device is removed at the end of growth.</div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;Spinal fusion uses metal implants, rods and bone grafts to fuse as few segments of the spine as possible. These implants and rods are used to hold the spine in place until it can fuse itself.&nbsp;Over a period of about 12 months, the bone graft fuses (grows together) with the existing bone in the spine and forms a solid column of bone in that area.&nbsp;The instrumentation is no longer needed at this point but is usually left in place. This is the tried-and-tested surgery usually offered by the NHS.</div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/princegeorgescountymd-gov-1_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;">Adolescent Idiopathic Scoliosis (AIS) is the most common type of scoliosis.<br />&#8203;<font size="5">&#8203;</font><br /></div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;Of course, there is always the option to do nothing. However, when the curve reaches a greater degree -normally around the 50-degree mark- there is an increased likelihood of the curvature continuing to grow, even if the patient has completed growth. Year-on-year this often compounds, along with becoming uncomfortable it could become dangerous as there is a potential risk to organs such as the lungs and heart. This is uncommon, and seen in cases with a degree of curvature normally over 100-degrees (a few are affected when over 70-degrees). In the right care a patient shouldn&rsquo;t reach this stage. Our family is grateful to have a wonderful team supporting us all as we head into the next stage, spinal fusion. Understandably, my daughter has some trepidation about the procedure but is keen to get it done. Luckily, it&rsquo;s only her thoracic spine that will require fusion as the lumbar spinal curve has been determined to be compensatory. The majority of her flexibility will be preserved&mdash;phew!&nbsp;<br />&#8203;</div>  <div class="paragraph"><strong>What can you do&#8203;?</strong></div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;Progression can be very swift, especially with Adolescent Idiopathic Scoliosis (AIS) as it coincides with the growth spurt. Naturally, teens become more private with their bodies and caregivers see their shape less under baggie-hoodies and layers. Summer is often the time a parent or carer notices something doesn&rsquo;t look quite &lsquo;right&rsquo;. In my daughter&rsquo;s case it was the start of summer and I noticed something different when we were swimming on holiday.<br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/published/screenshot-2021-06-02-at-11-07-53.png?1622628935" alt="Picture" style="width:623;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><font size="5">&#8203;Early intervention is recommended</font><br /><br /></div>  <div class="paragraph">Above is a very simple forward-bend test you can do at home, and markers show you what to look for. You could do this check on your teen monthly or quarterly.</div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;If something looks &lsquo;off&rsquo;, see your GP. <strong>Early intervention is recommended</strong>. Most cases remain mild and a wait-and-watch approach is appropriate, some cases require bracing, and a small percentage go on to require surgery.</div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;Whether it&rsquo;s a wait-and-watch approach, bracing or surgery, all benefit from muscle-strengthening,&nbsp;<strong>not to correct or halt progression</strong>&nbsp;but to&nbsp;<strong>prevent or lessen pain by strengthening and retraining muscles</strong>. I use a number of techniques and tools including; balls; yoga bricks; Pilates; yoga&nbsp;postures (&#257;sanas); and breathing practices (pr&#257;&#7751;&#257;y&#257;ma), depending on the client's need and preference. Being consistent with exercise is important; when so much feels out of control this is an area where ownership can be claimed &ndash; improvements in strength and self-confidence make it all worthwhile. I always say, &ldquo;do what you can do, the rest isn&rsquo;t up to you&rdquo;.</div>  <div class="paragraph">So that's an overview of what scoliosis is and some treatments available. To get a better picture of the lived-experience search #scoliwarriors or #scoliosiswarriors (especially on Instagram) to read personal stories of people at all ages and stages -- they're so inspiring and full of support for the community.<br />&#8203;</div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><font size="5">"I see you beautiful&nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/explore/tags/scoliwarriors/">#scoliwarriors</a>, and your families.<br />You&rsquo;re all titanium, rods or not!"<br />&#8203;</font></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font size="3">(Please consult with your medical team before starting a new practice.)</font><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Starting a yoga practice]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.onecreativechoice.com/blog/starting-a-yoga-practice]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.onecreativechoice.com/blog/starting-a-yoga-practice#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 05 May 2021 13:14:26 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.onecreativechoice.com/blog/starting-a-yoga-practice</guid><description><![CDATA[&#8203;Spoiler: if you don&rsquo;t want to change your life, don&rsquo;t start a yoga practice.  This was going to be a piece summarising some of my&nbsp;FAQs&nbsp;and some top-tips for newbies. Instead, I&rsquo;m afraid I&rsquo;ve gone to the heart of things.&#8203;(FAQs are here if that&rsquo;s what you&rsquo;re looking for, loads of good info for beginners.)&#8203;  &#8203;Starting a yoga practice: It can be exciting, confusing and perhaps, a little daunting.   	 		 			 				 					 						      [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<h2 class="wsite-content-title"><span style="color:rgb(0, 0, 0)"><font size="4"><strong>&#8203;</strong>Spoiler: if you don&rsquo;t want to change your life, don&rsquo;t start a yoga practice.</font></span></h2>  <div class="paragraph">This was going to be a piece summarising some of my&nbsp;FAQs&nbsp;and some top-tips for newbies. Instead, I&rsquo;m afraid I&rsquo;ve gone to the heart of things.<br />&#8203;<a href="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/faq.html" target="_blank"><strong><font size="3">(FAQs are here if that&rsquo;s what you&rsquo;re looking for, loads of good info for beginners.)</font></strong><br />&#8203;</a></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font size="6">&#8203;Starting a yoga practice: </font><br /><font size="5">It can be exciting, confusing and perhaps, a little daunting.</font></div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/published/1.png?1620223238" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph">Images of yoga poses and personal anecdotes about yoga retreats and the latest trends in yoga are all-pervasive. Stunning images featuring, (usually) young, white women in athletic and often gymnast-style poses, in tropical or visually arresting locations take up a lot of space in the world of social media. No doubt, these are aesthetically pleasing but they really aren&rsquo;t doing the practice of yoga justice, and may be off-putting to many who would benefit from this ancient and life-changing practice, which, if you didn&rsquo;t know, is so much more than postures.</div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><br /><font size="6">&#8203;Let&rsquo;s be clear from the outset, yoga is for everybody.<br />All are welcome here.</font><br /><font size="5">&#8203;</font></div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;Starting where you are now is the right place to start. You do not need to look a certain way, shape, size, colour, or sex. As you are now is perfect. You are ready to begin, the fact you are reading this probably means your journey has already begun. How long it will take, well&hellip;read on.<br /></div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;Yoga is more than the postures. Yoga comes from the Sanskrit word&nbsp;<em>&lsquo;yuj&rsquo;,&nbsp;</em>which means &lsquo;to yoke&rsquo;. (Yoking was a practice used to connect and harness two animals. They would be &lsquo;yoked&rsquo; together, typically at their necks, to then be able to perform tasks, such as ploughing a field.) To yoke is to create a&nbsp;<em>union</em>, and this is typically how we hear yoga defined today, a union of &lsquo;the self&rsquo; with the &lsquo;true-self&rsquo;. Ultimately, it&rsquo;s a piercing of illusion or peeling back of layers, the word &lsquo;yoga&rsquo; in and of itself is already a paradox. The true essence of yoga is uniting two things that were never actually separate to begin with. It is just the&nbsp;<em>illusion</em>&nbsp;of separation that we need to remove.<br />&#8203;<br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <h2 class="wsite-content-title"><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">&#8203;What can you expect?</span><font size="2"><strong style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">&nbsp;<br />&#8203;</strong><strong style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)"><a href="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/faq.html" target="_blank">(more prosaic details in FAQ)</a></strong></font></h2>  <div class="paragraph">A good yoga class will include asana (postures), pranayama (breathwork), meditation and time for assimilation. When doing these practices we align breath, body and mind, which is beneficial for many reasons, including making us very present in the &lsquo;now&rsquo;. You learn these techniques in class and should be guided to build your own home practice.<br /></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/published/2.png?1620223656" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;Through asana we build strength in the body, promote health and remove tension and energetic blocks. We use the breath here to ensure we aren&rsquo;t straining and our mind focuses on our breath, balance and openness. This is a type of moving meditation &ndash; if your mind wanders, you&rsquo;ll lose the thread of your breath, or your balance, or go too deep, or not deeply enough, into the pose. Pranayama, along with other benefits, gives our mind a single focus, which again, is a kind of meditation. A specific meditation part of the class may also be offered, which also trains the mind.<br />&#8203;<br /></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title"><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">&#8203;The Four Ps</span></h2>  <div class="paragraph">Alongside <strong>physical</strong> and <strong>physiological</strong> benefits these techniques also help us <strong>psychologically</strong> as (when practiced correctly) they share the quality of stilling the mind &ndash; bringing <strong>peace</strong>.</div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><br /><font size="6">Yoga Chitta Vritti&nbsp;Nirodha&#8203;</font><br /><font size="3">~Patanjali, Yoga Sutras.<strong style="color: rgb(37, 37, 37);">&#8203;</strong></font></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><em><font size="3">Yoga is the settling of the mind into silence.<br />&#8203;When the mind has settled, we are established in our essential nature, which is unbounded Consciousness.<br />Our essential nature is usually overshadowed by the activity of the mind.&nbsp;</font></em><br /><font size="3">&#8203;</font></div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:48.096885813149%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/published/3.png?1620224137" alt="Picture" style="width:273;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:51.903114186851%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;&#8203;<br />&#8203;As a society this is something we don&rsquo;t do very often. Our minds are racing, planning, calculating, interpreting, reliving, etc., there&rsquo;s a lot of internal, as well as external, &lsquo;noise&rsquo; &ndash; there&rsquo;s always something vying for our attention. We&rsquo;ve gotten so used to this we frequently don&rsquo;t even perceive the issue just the symptoms such as, stress, exhaustion, distraction, anxiety, etc..<br />&#8203;</div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;<strong>It&rsquo;s good and it keeps unfolding for your benefit.</strong><br />For many beginners the novel experience of this balance, internal stillness or unity &ndash; even if only briefly glimpsed on the mat &ndash; is what captivates them. Interpreted as a sense of well-being it feels familiar and is often described as &lsquo;home&rsquo;. Most would say that this is what initially brings them &lsquo;back to the mat&rsquo;.&nbsp;<br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;As you&rsquo;ve no doubt gathered, yoga goes beyond what happens on the yoga mat or meditation cushion. We start to have those feelings in our everyday life. All areas of life are enhanced, which we could top-line describe as improvements in our relationship with others and ourselves. The benefits keep unfolding and things which do not serve us easily drop away. This is what keeps us going long-term. The steadiness and clarity we experience in practice becomes more discernible in our everyday. As we aren&rsquo;t monks or renunciates it&rsquo;s not of much use if the only time we can contact these qualities is when on the yoga mat or meditation cushion. We cultivate these qualities to navigate the world we live in more easily.&nbsp;<br /></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="wsite-spacer" style="height:17px;"></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/4_orig.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><br />&#8203;We should remember:&#8203;<br />&#8203;</div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:center;"><font size="5">The very root of all the yogic practices is to reach only one goal: enlightenment (freedom).<br />&#8203;</font></div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;The elements within our practice are our tools for this goal.* (Don&rsquo;t worry, there&rsquo;s joy along the way.) If we reach a&nbsp;<em>constant</em> state of stillness and steadiness of mind&nbsp;we can dispense with the tools, for we&rsquo;ve reached freedom, enlightenment, achieved stability in pure awareness, which is understood by some as Samadhi.&nbsp;</div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="wsite-spacer" style="height:16px;"></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/published/5.png?1620224178" alt="Picture" style="width:383;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph"><br />&#8203;&#8203;&#8203;Until Samadhi, we make like Goldilocks, getting things, &ldquo;Just right!&rdquo;, creating the conditions that support a state of homeostasis and that&rsquo;s why it&rsquo;s called a practice. Even after decades of personal practice and many years of teaching I still practice. The &lsquo;going-in&rsquo; or &lsquo;peeling&rsquo; is an on-going thing. The nature of our bodies, mental state and personal circumstances and other external elements is changeable. This is the human experience. What was accessible last month, year, yesterday or this morning may not be now, in this very moment, or perhaps we can go further than before because more is available to us.&nbsp;</div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">This changeability keeps the practice fresh and constantly invites us to the present moment. (Which serves us well, as the &lsquo;now&rsquo; is the only reality. The future is your imagination and the past is impossible to live in. All you&rsquo;ve got is &lsquo;now&rsquo;.)</span></div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;There are many styles of yoga and I would encourage you to do your research, be open, and give it a try, see which style and teacher you gel with. A good teacher will always be able to give modifications and extensions for poses and be open to your questions. Use your brain, maybe don&rsquo;t hit an Ashtanga level 2 or hot yoga class if you&rsquo;ve mainly been &lsquo;yoked&rsquo; with your couch during lockdown. There&rsquo;s no shame in being a beginner, in fact, I still love taking a beginners classes as much as I enjoy teaching them (that&rsquo;s my jam), it&rsquo;s an inward journey after all. Find a teacher that supports you in your practice and your &lsquo;going-in&rsquo;.<br />&#8203;<br /></div>  <div class="paragraph"><font size="3">&#8203;*Further elements are used as we broaden our practice. Please see the yoga sutra of Patanjali for more information on the ashtanga (eight-limbs), which guide us on how to live a meaningful and purposeful life.</font></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Wellbeing TOOLKIT – to help us cope with life]]></title><link><![CDATA[https://www.onecreativechoice.com/blog/toolkit]]></link><comments><![CDATA[https://www.onecreativechoice.com/blog/toolkit#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Thu, 01 Apr 2021 13:35:17 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">https://www.onecreativechoice.com/blog/toolkit</guid><description><![CDATA[ 	 		 			 				 					 						            					 								 					 						  As we entered lockdown last year I shared on my social channels a selection of techniques that I grouped into a practical toolkit. As we start to ease out of lockdown I thought it would be useful to give them a bit of a polish and share them again here, as they&rsquo;re relevant to any period of stress and uncertainty, not just Covid-19.&nbsp;Life has been changed beyond our imagining back in January 2020. It&rsquo;s been a long [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="wsite-spacer" style="height:10px;"></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:right"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/published/img-1776.png?1617288479" alt="Picture" style="width:404;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">As we entered lockdown last year I shared on my social channels a selection of techniques that I grouped into a practical toolkit. As we start to ease out of lockdown I thought it would be useful to give them a bit of a polish and share them again here, as they&rsquo;re relevant to any period of stress and uncertainty, not just Covid-19.</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">Life has been changed beyond our imagining back in January 2020. It&rsquo;s been a long haul and more freedom is certainly welcome. For some, it comes with a degree of trepidation, this transition period is going to be both exciting and challenging. Hopefully you will draw on these resources for support.<br />&#8203;</span></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;">The tips I share below are aimed at getting us out of the fight-flight-freeze response (stress cycle), which many of us are in a lot of the time, and returning to rest-and-digest (relaxation) by accessing the parasympathetic nervous system. We will do this through stimulation of the vagus nerve&nbsp;(stay with me&hellip;).<br />&#8203;</div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/img-1781_orig.jpeg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><br /><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">&#8203;The vagus nerve branches out from the brain stem to the inner ear, throat, diaphragm, lungs, heart and abdominal organs. Although we cannot consciously control our heart, kidneys or small intestine, we can control the muscles of respiration (breathing) and the muscles of the larynx (that open and close the vocal cords and control the pitch of sound). To facilitate the parasympathetic response in the body (and stimulate the vagus nerve), we need to exert influence over those two main areas, namely breath and sound.&nbsp;</span>&#8203;<br />&#8203;</div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title"><font color="#818181">Firstly, WORKING WITH BREATH</font></h2>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">Deep diaphragmatic breathing is where it&rsquo;s at. You&rsquo;re no doubt familiar with the image of someone experiencing panic and scenes of them hyper-ventilating, it&rsquo;s noisy, distressing and very obvious. Oftentimes, we&rsquo;re actually doing a less outwardly dramatic version of this. If you take fast short shallow breaths your brain perceives it as an invitation to fight-flight-freeze; if you seep the air in and let it out slowly your brain will take it as an invitation to rest-and-digest, promoting parasympathetic activation.&nbsp;You&rsquo;re going to be able to relax and feel so much better.</span></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/published/img-1777.png?1617287697" alt="Picture" style="width:358;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><br /><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">&#8203;Let&rsquo;s start by trying a couple of exercises to get an understanding of what we mean when we refer to deepening the breath.</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">1. You can intentionally control your respiratory musculature by expanding the chest first then the belly on the inhale, and then gradually contract the abdomen (draw your navel backwards towards your spine) and deflate the chest on the exhale. Adding this type of directionality to your breathing patterns helps to slow down the breath and gain more control over the respiratory musculature (don&rsquo;t lift your shoulders, unclench your jaw, relax your face&hellip;).</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">Using this deeper way of breathing we can move onto the second step.</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">2. Lengthening the exhalation (exhale + hold after exhale, don&rsquo;t strain).&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">Have you heard the phrase, &lsquo;waiting to exhale&rsquo;? It&rsquo;s often used when someone is experiencing uncertainty or stress. Every time you inhale you activate your sympathetic response a bit (and your heart speeds up a little, the vagus nerve is suppressed); if you hold the air in, that response is accentuated.&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">Conversely, every time you exhale you activate the parasympathetic response (the heart rate slows down a bit and the vagus nerve is activated); if you hold the air out for few seconds it will further facilitate the parasympathetic activation. To promote parasympathetic activation and vagus nerve stimulation you would need to gradually lengthen your exhale and pause after exhale (comfortably). This pause or gap usually happens quite naturally after some minutes of the deep breathing mentioned above.<br />&#8203;</span></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title"><font color="#818181">TOOLKIT:</font></h2>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">Using the deep-breathing technique above we&rsquo;ll begin with simple breath ratios, for example Inhale for 6 seconds and then exhale for 6 seconds. Repeat for a few cycles. This is 1:1 breathing.&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">Next, and if accessible to you without strain, lengthen your exhalation to 8 seconds and introduce a short hold after exhale. So, 6-8-pause. You can gradually extend the ratio to inhale 6 seconds, exhale 8 seconds and hold for 4 seconds, 6-8-4. Repeat for a few cycles and gradually return to the comfortable breathing pace. (Again, don&rsquo;t lift your shoulders, unclench your jaw, relax your face&hellip;).<br />&#8203;</span></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">As you may notice when practicing these breathing techniques, moving attention away from the external to the internal creates better body awareness and better concentration. The same can be said for this next technique which utilises SOUND: (Good, good, good, good vibrations&hellip;)<br />&#8203;</span></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title"><font color="#818181">This is a journey into sound</font><font size="3" style="color:rgb(129, 129, 129)"> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W6CJmJ5p3Ow&amp;list=PLPxMtKa9CNtieRdOLTvw_b7ugakPCjYVu" target="_blank">(beat Dis)</a></font></h2>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/published/img-1778.png?1617289638" alt="Picture" style="width:328;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">Research shows that chanting OM deactivates the limbic parts of the brain (some call it the lizard brain) involved in our behavioural and emotional responses, especially our&nbsp;fight-flight-freeze&nbsp;responses. Which, as previously mentioned, is where most people reside most of the time, due to busy and stressful lives. Next, we&rsquo;ll learn how to use sound to activate the parasympathetic nervous system, our rest-and-digest response, and move away from the physiological effects of stress.<br />&#8203;</span></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">&#8203;The Yogis amongst you will be aware when chanting OM we experience a vibration sensation around the ears. Science suggests that this sensation is transmitted through the auricular branch of the vagus nerve. Since the vagus nerve branches out into the inner ear and larynx, controlling the opening and closing of the vocal cords and sound pitch, it appears to get stimulated during vocalisation of O and M sounds.&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">In addition, we always chant on the exhalation, which as we know from above, means that the vagus nerve is activated in its role as parasympathetic system manager. Also, chanting usually facilitates lengthening of the exhalation, which further amplifies the parasympathetic effect, as mentioned above. It&rsquo;s a double-win!<br />&#8203;</span></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title"><font color="#818181">TOOLKIT:</font></h2>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">If chanting isn&rsquo;t already part of your practice and seems a little out there, don&rsquo;t worry, I have a few options for you; firstly, you could chant OM, instructions below; or softly hum your favourite song, this is perfectly acceptable and may be the most accessible option for you; or practice Bhr&#257;mar&#299;&nbsp;pr&#257;&#7751;&#257;y&#257;ma&nbsp;(bee breath), instructions below. Give these three options a try and see which sits best with you. If you laugh along the way, that&rsquo;s an added bonus.</span><br /><br /><ol style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)"><li>How to chant Om: (Om syllable by syllable&mdash;a-&#257;-u-&#363;-m-(ng)-(silence).)<br />With eyes closed take a deep inhale, as you exhale to sound the first two syllables, open the mouth wide (a-&#257;-). Pursing lips together helps stretch out the next two syllables (u-&#363;-). Place the tip of your tongue on the roof your mouth to sound the last two syllables (m-ng). Let the silence within you settle before inhaling again. Repeat for a minute or so, noticing the vibrations in your throat and skull. Keeping your eyes closed, return to your normal breathing. Notice if anything has changed.</li><li><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">&#8203;</span><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">To practice Bhr&#257;mar&#299;&nbsp;pr&#257;&#7751;&#257;y&#257;ma&nbsp;(Bee Breath) you lengthen the exhalation and make a long one-tone M sound, this is usually calming.</span></li></ol> &#8203;<br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="wsite-spacer" style="height:15px;"></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">&#8203;Find a comfortable seated position, either on the floor or in a chair. Always balance effort and ease. Make a buzzing sound of moderate volume, but never force it. Keep your facial muscles loose, your lips lightly touching, and your jaw relaxed, with the upper and lower rows of teeth slightly separated. Prolong the buzzing sound on the exhalation as long as it&rsquo;s comfortable and you can still inhale smoothly, without gasping for air. If you start to feel agitated, back off and return to normal breathing.</span></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/published/img-1779.png?1617290414" alt="Picture" style="width:317;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><strong style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)"><br />&#8203;Basic&nbsp;Bhr</strong><strong style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">&#257;</strong><strong style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">mar</strong><strong style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">&#299;&nbsp;</strong><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">(without mudra&nbsp;or Ujj&#257;y&#299;&nbsp;breath.)</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">Sit comfortably and allow your eyes to close. Take a breath or two to settle in and notice the state of your mind. When you&rsquo;re ready, inhale and then, for the entire length of your exhalation, make a low- to medium-pitched humming sound in the throat. Notice how the sound waves gently vibrate your tongue, teeth, and sinuses. Imagine the sound is vibrating your entire brain (it really is). Do this practice for six rounds of breath and then, keeping your eyes closed, return to your normal breathing. Notice if anything has changed.<br />&#8203;</span></div>  <h2 class="wsite-content-title"><font color="#818181">What else can we do?</font></h2>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">So, that&rsquo;s a few simple ways you can work with the (fascinating) vagus nerve and feel a whole heap better. What else can we do? You&rsquo;ve possibly been enjoying a permitted daily walk during lockdown. If this was new for you, don&rsquo;t let it go as lockdown eases. If you can keep it in your schedule it will continue to do you good. The days are getting longer (here in the northern-hemisphere) and (generally) the weather is better, with restrictions lifting be sure to get outside, even if you can only manage a few minutes. Enjoy the fresh air, all that vitamin D and the gorgeous colours that nature&rsquo;s showing-off just now. Did you know that being outside in the morning (best within an hour of waking), absorbing daylight through the eyes, sets chemicals in motion to help you sleep at night?</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">As studios, gyms and classes start up, get involved. If you&rsquo;d rather practice at home and haven&rsquo;t started already, there are now lots of resources online &ndash; a benefit of the recent past&hellip; Do what&rsquo;s fun for you and you&rsquo;re more likely to keep it up. Movement is proven to not only improve our physical but our mental health too. Make a daily date incorporating breathwork (pr&#257;&#7751;&#257;y&#257;ma), sound, and movement and you will be paving the way to wellness. (A sing-a-long dance party in the kitchen counts, even if you&rsquo;re dancing by yourself!)<br />&#8203;</span></div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/published/img-1780.png?1617289847" alt="Picture" style="width:301;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">And let&rsquo;s not forget interaction, another key facet in human wellbeing, which we&rsquo;ve all recently become acutely aware of. Whilst we might be implementing social distancing and masks for a while to come, your sparkly eyes and friendly wave go a long way to making another&rsquo;s day special. And lord knows, we can all still interact online. <a href="mailto:sally@onecreativechoice.com">Hit me up with questions, comments or just to say hi.</a></span><br /><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">&nbsp;</span><br /><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">Looking forward to being with you soon.<br />&#8203;</span></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><span style="color:rgb(37, 37, 37)">Join the <strong>m<a href="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/mailing-list.html">ailing list</a></strong> to be first to hear about what we&rsquo;re doing, and when we&rsquo;re doing it!</span></div>  <div class="wsite-spacer" style="height:50px;"></div>  <div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph"><span style="color:rgb(161, 161, 161)"><font size="2">&copy; 2021. 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But this approach may turn out to be quixotic, not only because Death can&rsquo;t reliably be warded off with kale, but at a deeper level, because the best way to len [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;">This blog post comes from: http://www.thebookoflife.org/how-to-lengthen-your-life/<br /><br />CHAPTER 4: SELF:&nbsp;<span>MOOD</span><br /><br />&#8203;How to Lengthen Your Life<br /><br /><span>The normal way we set about trying to extend our lives is by striving to add more years to them &ndash; usually by eating more couscous and broccoli, going to bed early and running in the rain. But this approach may turn out to be quixotic, not only because Death can&rsquo;t reliably be warded off with kale, but at a deeper level, because the best way to lengthen a life is not by attempting to stick more years on to its tail.<br />&#8203;</span><br /><span>One of the most basic facts about time is that, even though we insist on measuring it as if it were an objective unit, it doesn&rsquo;t, in all conditions, feel as if it were moving at the same pace. Five minutes can feel like an hour; ten hours can feel like five minutes. A decade may pass like two years; two years may acquire the weight of half a century. And so on.</span><br /><br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/sonia-delaunay-1914-prismes-lectriques-oil-on-canvas-250-x-250-cm-mus-e-national-dart-moderne_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph"><span>In other words, our subjective experience of time bears precious little relation to the way we like to measure it on a clock. Time moves more or less slowly according to the vagaries of the human mind: it may fly or it may drag. It may evaporate into airy nothing or achieve enduring density.<br />&#8203;</span><br /><span>If the goal is to have a&nbsp;</span><em>longer</em><span>&nbsp;life, whatever the dieticians may urge, it seems like the priority should not be to add raw increments of time but to ensure that whatever years remain&nbsp;</span><em>feel</em><span>&nbsp;appropriately substantial. The aim should be to densify time rather than to try to extract one or two more years from the fickle grip of Death.&nbsp;<br />&#8203;</span><br /><span>Why then does time have such different speeds, moving at certain points bewilderingly fast, at others with intricate moderation? The clue is to be found childhood. The first ten years almost invariably feel longer than any other decade we have on earth. The teens are a little faster but still crawl. Yet by our 40s, time will have started to trot; and by our 60s, it will be unfolding at a bewildering gallop.</span><br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium " style="padding-top:5px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:10px;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/gouche_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;The difference in pace is not mysterious: it has to do with novelty. The more our days are filled with new, unpredictable and challenging experiences, the longer they will feel. And, conversely, the more one day is exactly like another, the faster it will pass by in an evanescent blur. Childhood ends up feeling so long because it is the cauldron of novelty; because its most ordinary days are packed with extraordinary discoveries and sensations: these can be as apparently minor yet as significant as the first time we explore the zip on a cardigan or hold our nose under water, the first time we look at the sun through the cotton of a beach towel or dig our fingers into the putty holding a window in its frame. Dense as it is with stimuli, the first decade might as well be a thousand years long.<br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/robert-delaunay-propeller-1923-private-collection-1_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;By middle age, things can be counted upon to have grown a lot more familiar. We may have flown around the world a few times. We no longer get excited by the idea of eating a pineapple, owning a car or flipping a lightswitch. We know about relationships, earning money and telling others what do. And as a result, time runs away from us without mercy.<br /><br />One solution often suggested at this point is that we should put all our efforts into discovering fresh sources of novelty. We can&rsquo;t just continue to live our small predictable and therefore &lsquo;swift&rsquo; lives in a single narrow domain; we need to become explorers and adventurers. We must go to Machu Picchu or Angkor Wat, Astana or Montevideo, we need to find a way to swim with dolphins or order a thirteen course meal at a world-famous restaurant in downtown Lima. That will finally slow down the cruel gallop of time.<br /><br />But this is to labour under an unfair, expensive and ultimately impractical notion of novelty. We may by middle age certainly have&nbsp;<em>seen</em>&nbsp;a great many things in our neighborhoods, but we are &ndash; fortunately for us &ndash; unlikely to have properly noticed most of them. We have probably taken a few cursory glances at the miracles of existence that lie to hand and assumed, quite unjustly, that we know all there is to know about them. We&rsquo;ve imagined we understand the city we live in, the people we interact with and, more or less, the point of it all.<br /><br />But of course we have barely scratched the surface. We have grown bored of a world we haven&rsquo;t begun to study properly. And that, among other things, is why time is racing by.<br /><br />The pioneers at making life feel longer in the way that counts are not dieticians, but artists. At its best, art is a tool that reminds us of how little we have fathomed and noticed. It re-introduces us to ordinary things and reopens our eyes to a latent beauty and interest in precisely those areas we had ceased to bother with. It helps us to recover some of the manic sensitivity we had as newborns. Here is Cezanne, looking closely at apples, as if he had never seen one before and nudging us to do likewise:<br /></div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/447n08987-6vnfg_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">Here is Van Gogh, mesmerised by some oranges:</div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/still-life-with-basket-and-six-oranges_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">&#8203;Here is Albrecht Durer, looking &ndash; as only children usually do &ndash; very closely at a clod of earth:</div>  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="https://www.onecreativechoice.com/uploads/1/8/9/9/18991195/duerer-the-large-turf_orig.jpg" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div class="paragraph">We don&rsquo;t need to make art in order to learn the most valuable lesson of artists, which is about noticing properly, living with our eyes open &ndash; and thereby, along the way, savouring time. Without any intention to create something that could be put in a gallery, we could &ndash; as part of a goal of living more deliberately &ndash; take a walk in an unfamiliar part of town, ask an old friend about a side of their life we&rsquo;d never dared to probe at, lie on our back in the garden and look up at the stars or hold our partner in a way we never tried before. It takes a rabid lack of imagination to think we have to go to Machu Picchu to find something new.<br />&#8203;&nbsp;<br />In Fyodor Dostoevsky&rsquo;s novel&nbsp;<em>The Idiot</em>, a prisoner has suddenly been condemned to death and been told he has only a few minutes left to live. &lsquo;What if I were&nbsp;<em>not</em>&nbsp;to die!,&rsquo; he exclaims. &lsquo;What if life were given back to me &ndash; what infinity!&hellip; I&rsquo;d turn a whole minute into an age&hellip;&rsquo; Faced with losing his life, the poor wretch recognises that every minute could be turned into aeons of time, with sufficient imagination and appreciation.<br /><br />It is sensible enough to try to live&nbsp;<em>longer</em>&nbsp;lives. But we are working with a false notion of what long really means. We might live to be a thousand years old and still complain that it had all rushed by too fast. We should be aiming to lead lives that feel long because we have managed to imbue them with the right sort of open-hearted appreciation and unsnobbish receptivity, the kind that five-year-olds know naturally how to bring to bear. We need to pause and look at one another&rsquo;s faces, study the evening sky, wonder at the eddies and colours of the river and dare to ask the kind of questions that open our souls. We don&rsquo;t need to add years; we need to densify the time we have left by ensuring that every day is lived consciously &ndash; and we can do this via a manoeuvre as simple as it is momentous: by starting to&nbsp;<em>notice</em>&nbsp;all that we have as yet only&nbsp;<em>seen</em>.</div>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>